Talk About the Big Stuff
Talk About the Big Stuff
While it's important to compromise and discuss the little things, it's even more important to discuss the big things that may upset either one of you. This means to talk about it openly, not in any confrontational or argumentative manner, but to express your thoughts. The other person has to be an open listener as well, to not be offended. Hopefully you can come up with an agreement or plan that works for both of you.